About Us
4given Project
The 4given Project exists to help people build a real relationship with Jesus Christ—through supernatural encounters, authentic community, Biblical truth, and real testimonies.
Our Story
My name is Tosha Wade, and I am the Founder and CEO of the 4given Project. In 2019, I had a supernatural encounter that changed my life forever. Though I had gone to church, prayed, and considered myself a believer, this experience was different—Jesus spoke back to me in a profoundly personal and supernatural way.
It was then that I realized He had been speaking to me my entire life—I just hadn’t been listening. That encounter awakened something deep inside me: a purpose to help others experience the real Jesus, not religion. A desire to build a ministry where everyone feels seen, loved, and welcomed—no matter where they are in life—and to teach people how to build a personal and authentic relationship with Him.
In March of 2022, that vision came to life through the birth of the 4given Project.
But God didn’t let me walk this alone. Around the same time, He was moving powerfully in the life of Rema Chidiac, who would later become my co-founder and sister in Christ. Rema had her own supernatural encounter with Jesus—one that rescued her from addiction, depression, and striving for perfection through religion. Her story mirrored mine in so many ways, even though we came from different generations. Our friendship was ignited through those encounters. Two women from two generations—brought together by the same Savior, filled with the same fire, and sent on the same mission: to help people move from religion to relationship, encounter the power of the Holy Spirit, and discover who they truly are in Christ.
Together, we’ve watched chains break, hearts heal, and lives transform through retreats, mentorship, and now, the Relationship Not Religion Podcast.
This isn’t just a ministry. It’s a movement—one encounter, one story, and one surrendered heart at a time.
Meet The Team
Tosha Wade
Tosha is the founder of the 4given Project and creator of both its transformative retreats and the Relationship Not Religion podcast. A devoted mom to Tatianna, serving in the U.S Air Force, Tosha has a heart of giving and loves caring for people in practical ways. After a supernatural encounter with Jesus changed her life during a season that included time in prison, she launched 4given Project retreats to give women a place to meet Jesus and build an authentic relationship with him. Her vision quickly grew into the Relationship Not Religion podcast, which she and Rema have hosted together since day one.
Rema Chidiac
Co-Founder of the 4given Project and the co-host of the Relationship not Religion podcast. Married to Joseph Chidiac and joyfully expecting their first child, Rema has been with Tosha since the very beginning-helping shape the ministry from its first retreat to the launch of the podcast. She leads Sunday school, weekly youth and bible studies, and morning prayer online, all flowing from her deep love for Jesus and desire to help others know Him personally.
Alexis Grace
Alexis serves as the Executive Producer & Operations Director. She’s the heartbeat of production—the one who brings structure to the Spirit-led vision. From developing podcast episode concepts and coordinating shoots, to managing editing, scheduling, and website direction—she ensures every detail stays aligned with the mission. Her gift is bringing order without losing authenticity—blending creativity, excellence, and Holy Spirit direction to help the vision come to life. Around here, she’s more than a producer; she’s family. Together, Tosha, Rema, and Alexis form the core team behind this movement—one that’s raw, real, and fully surrendered to Jesus.